For all of you pervs out there...that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about the size of the ENTIRE man. This blog's for the ladies.

I am not a big guy....5'7" 165lbs. In men's terms that's considered small. I have always been with, dated and even married women smaller than myself. It just happened to work out that way. Or at least I think it did. What I mean by that is I don't think women taller than me ever even give me a second glance. Is that true ladies? Be honest. Does a short guy give you a strange feeling you can't quite describe? If so, try describing it for me. I'm curious.

Wouldn't shutting a guy down because he's short be the equivalent of a guy shutting you down because you're chubby? Think about that 'logically' before you get your panties all in a bunch ladies. The answer to that question is 'a resounding yes.'

Does a woman's definition of 'tough' automatically mean big or imposing, aggressive or even violent? If so I have no desire to act nor appear 'tough'. That is not what makes a man a man. Being 'tough' is not a trait I would look for in my daughter's boyfriend.

Do I have that "little man complex"? No I do not. There's no chip on my shoulder or anything. I avoid fighting. Not because I'm small but because fighting is for those uneducated pukes that think being 'tough' is being a man and being a man is beating someone up. 

So ladies, when you see that cute guy remember the following:

Being small doesn't automatically make a guy an ice skater.  :)

Being small doesn't automatically make a guy feminine.

Being small doesn't automatically make a man less of a man.

Do I have a problem with my size? Unfortunately, yes, sometimes I do. <-----(sign of a real man ladies, can admit weakness and doesn't care what anyone thinks, that's 'tough') We all have our hang-ups.

Think about this very hard ladies and be honest, does size really matter?

Deunan